Daily writing prompt
Write about your first name: its meaning, significance, etymology, etc.

My name is Ava. It’s a small word, yet it carries a world of meaning. Names have always held power, shaping identities and bridging the gap between who we are and how others perceive us. For me, Ava is more than just a name; it is a declaration of authenticity, a symbol of transformation, and a thread weaving together the old and new chapters of my life.

The name Ava has an intriguing etymology. It is often said to have roots in multiple languages, each contributing its own layer of richness. Some trace it to the Latin word “avis,” which means bird and evokes images of flight, freedom, and grace. In Hebrew, it is believed to derive from “Chava” or Eve, meaning life or living, connecting to beginnings and vitality. Meanwhile, in Persian, Ava signifies voice or sound, highlighting expression and individuality. All these meanings resonate deeply with me. Freedom, life, and voice—these are the very essences of my journey.

The significance of my name lies not only in its etymology but also in how it aligns with my personal story. I chose Ava intentionally, with a profound sense of reverence for what it represents. As someone navigating the journey of transition, this name feels like a reclamation of my true self, one that seems to have been waiting for me to step into its embrace. It is light yet strong, timeless yet contemporary. Ava encapsulates who I am—a person breaking free from constraints, living authentically, and expressing my truth.

I also love the sound of Ava. It is short and simple, yet it carries elegance and depth. The vowels flow smoothly, like a song sung by the wind. It feels like a name that is approachable and warm, yet dignified and strong. Saying it aloud feels empowering, as if I’m affirming my identity with every syllable.

Ava’s significance extends beyond just me. It connects me to the broader world and to the people who have carried this name before me. There is something universal about its beauty and versatility. Across various cultures and languages, Ava retains its essence, showing that a name can be both personal and universal. It reminds me of my interconnectedness with humanity while also affirming my individuality.

Choosing this name wasn’t without challenges. Naming oneself is a profound act of self-determination, but it also carries significant weight. Would the name fit me? Would it resonate with others? Would it reflect who I am becoming? However, when I said it aloud for the first time, something clicked. It felt right, as if it had always belonged to me, patiently waiting for me to claim it.

Now, when I hear someone call me Ava, it feels like an affirmation, a recognition of my true self. This name embodies the freedom I’ve embraced, the life I’m living, and the voice I’m raising. Ava is more than a name; it is my story, my song, and my wings.


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    valiantbe1607aa5a

    I love this and it really got me thinking.

    I was born ‘Melany’ and am now ‘Mel’. This is a result of being in 2 very male dominated professions as a Computer Scientist and Chef.

    I used ‘Mel’ sometimes in high school and college, but it really “stuck” after graduating from The University of Akron with a BS in Computer Science in 1990. There were only 3 women at that time, in the program.

    It is a scene I will never forget. Akron, the capital of all the tire companies. My Dad was an executive at Goodrich, my one grandfather worked at Goodyear and the other at Firestone. I came home from college one afternoon, during my last grueling semester, right before graduation. I was sobbing. My mom, standing in the kitchen either cooking or having her nightly beer, asked me what was wrong. I bellied up to the bar height counter and sat down, tears streaming down my face.

    I said “all of my classmates (all male) are interviewing with all three tire companies and I can’t get one single interview anywhere”. She immediately replied “bring me your resume right now!”. As I handed it to her, she ordered me to change ‘Melany’ to ‘Mel’ at the very top. What a smart woman!

    Within a few days, the old, yellow dial phone rang and I picked it up. The voice on the other end was an HR person from Goodyear and asked for ‘Mel’. I said “speaking”. There was dead silence. Then, “oh, Mel is a girl?”. Yep, she sure is and she continues to be ‘Mel’ as a Chef and a Computer Scientist, to this day, in both professions, still dominated by men. 💪🏽👍🏽🙆🏽‍♀️😁

    Thanks Mom! I hope you’re looking down and reading along. There is A LOT in a name and I’m very proud to still be ‘Mel’.

    Thanks for letting me share, Ava!

    Chef Mel / M3 Aqua Fitness

    612.280.7918

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